Virtual Offrenda

 

LGBTQ MINISTRY

Virtual Ofrenda

Dia de los Muertos
All Souls Day

Recuérdame                Remember Me                Isipin mo ako

 

"I give thanks to my God at every remembrance of you"

Philippians 1:3

 

The people we remember on our virtual ofrenda are members of our LGBTQ community, but they are also our spouses, parents, family and friends.

*If you wish to add someone to our wall, email: tim@sjesandiego.org

Our beloved LEBO who passed away this year.

Lebo was an active member of our ministry for the last few years. She was a faithful Catholic, and joined us at weekly masses, and many events from our monthly meetings to the San Diego PRIDE parade.

She is surely enjoying heaven on an eternal cruise!

Fr. Henry Rodriguez
(submitted by Wm. Christopher Mathews)

Fr. Henry started the LGBT ministry at SJE. The link below is to an NCR memorial to Fr. Henry, written by a priest friend. It describes how he was marginalized by the former bishop for marching in the Gay Pride parade and how Bishop McElroy brought him back and assigned him to our parish.

https://www.ncronline.org/blogs/priestly-diary/requiem-fr-henry-rodriguez

Tyler Christian Van Uffelen 
(submitted by Tim Foley)

My beloved partner amd soul mate. You helped me appreciate who I am.

Tyler passed at his Grandmother's house on 10/16/2021

 

Arden Johnson
(submitted by Charles Calabria)

My Partner. Together NineYears
He Passed away on November 5, 2013 in Santa Rosa, CA

 

Bernie Conklin
(submitted by Stephanie Conklin)

My father, Bernie Conklin (10/19/1951-06/15/2016). He was a beloved father, friend, husband, uncle, brother, grandpa, and servant of Christ (he worked as a development director for a Dominican parish in Eugene, Oregon).

Bill and Betty Morris
(submitted by Kevin Morris)

My Father and Mother

Margarita de la Torre de Munoz
(submitted by Sergio Munoz)

My mother

Robertto Munoz
(submitted by Sergio Munoz)

My father

Angelo Perez
(submitted by Sergio Munoz)

My good friend

John Henry Martinez
(submitted by Steve Van Kueren)

John Henry Martinez, husband of Steve van Keuren.

John born 4 May 1948 (Star Wars baby), Paterson,  New Jersey. Died 7 Oct 2020, San Diego,  CA.

Met 5 Sep 1981, Liturgy of Sts. Serge and Bacchus, Sep 1991, Married 2004 and 2008.

Former Brother John, TOR, 7 years. Worked for United Airlines.   Massage therapist. Beloved husband. Died at home after 10 years with Alzheimers.

Dennis Keeley
(submitted by Jim  & Mary Keeley)

Dennis is the beloved son of
Deacon Jim Keeley and Mary Keeley

Margarita Saldaña 
(submitted by Ana Sical)

My grandma Margarita was the most special person to me, she was my favorite person in the world and was a mother to me. My grandma raised me, taught me to croquet, be tough, and was my foundation and largest motivator. My grandma was my biggest cheerleader and I got to experience my happiest moments with her. I loved sharing mangos, food, grocery shopping, Beach trips, and all the adventures. I loved our conversations and listening to her stories about her long life. My grandma's favorite flower was the Alcatraz (Calla Lily). 
 
My grandma passed away Feb 2020, she was 96 years old, and a year later on Feb 2021, my miracle blessing daughter Analisa Luna was born. My grandma sent me Analisa so I would not feel lonely and be able to have a new favorite person and Analisa reminds me so much of my grandma. 

 Prayers for the Dead and those who Mourn

In your hands, O Lord,
we humbly entrust our brothers and sisters.
In this life you embraced them with your tender love;
deliver them now from every evil
and bid them eternal rest.

The old order has passed away:
welcome them into paradise,
where there will be no sorrow, no weeping or pain,
but fullness of peace and joy
with your Son and the Holy Spirit
forever and ever.
R/. Amen.

Lord,
My loved one is gone now from this earthly dwelling,
and has left behind those who mourn their absence.
Grant that we may hold their memory dear,
never bitter for what we have lost
nor in regret for the past,
but always in hope of the eternal Kingdom
where you will bring us together again.
Through Christ our Lord.
R/. Amen.

May the love of God and the peace of the Lord Jesus Christ
bless and console us
and gently wipe every tear from our eyes:
in the name of the Father,
and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
R/. Amen.